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Module 1: Big Picture and Purpose of PCRC

  • The Purpose of Relationship Coaching
  • The 3-Part Coaching Framework
  • Big Picture PCRC Coaching Model
  • PCRC Training Manual
  • How to be Successful in this Course
  • PCRC Manifesto
  • How to be a Client
  • Don’t Be Attached to the Outcome with your Clients
  • Present Centered Relationship Coaching Manual
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Module 2: Principles, Goals, Confidentiality, Ethics

  • Client Goal
  • Coaching Principles: Life is Trustworthy
  • Coaching Principles: Love
  • Coaching Principles: Relationship as a Path
  • Coaching Principles: Relational Leadership
  • Coaching Principles: Security & Client Growth
  • Coaching Principles: Law of the Farm, Trust, Direct Experience
  • Coaching Principles: Behavior, Relationship Stages, Here and Now
  • Setting the Coaching Container and Holding Space
  • Coach Confidentiality
  • Code of Ethics- document
  • BONUS: The Primary Intention I Should Hold as a Coach
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Module 3: The Six Client Outcomes and Six Coach Practices

  • Administrative
  • Presence
  • Attunement
  • Support
  • Challenge
  • Develop their Story
  • Entanglement
  • Insight
  • Personal Responsibility
  • Be With
  • Empathy
  • Integration & Lessons
  • Action & Accountability
  • Equity Call 1
  • BONUS: 3 Things that Faciliate Change- Carl Rogers
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Module 4: Your First Session and “Be With” Skills

  • Your First Session
  • Building Rapport
  • Jayson Modeling How To Build Rapport
  • Populations We Are Not Qualified To Serve
  • Coaching When a Client’s Child is in the Room
  • LIghting and Posture Over Zoom
  • Ray’s First Session
  • Personal Responsibility
  • Melissa’s First Session
  • Equity Call 2
  • BONUS: Jayson’s Client Resourcing Demonstration
  • BONUS: Jayson Demonstrating Guiding a Visualization Helping A Client Get Resourced - Visualization
  • BONUS: Jayson Modeling a First Session - Leah
  • BONUS: Jayson Modeling a First Session - Warren
  • BONUS: Jayson Reviewing His Coaching Session with John
  • BONUS: Helping A Client “Be With” His Fear
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Module 5: Transmission, Motivational Interviewing & Values

  • The Purpose of Relationship Coaching
  • The 3-Part Coaching Framework
  • Big Picture PCRC Coaching Model
  • PCRC Training Manual
  • How to be Successful in this Course
  • PCRC Manifesto
  • How to be a Client
  • Don’t Be Attached to the Outcome with your Clients
  • Present Centered Relationship Coaching Manual
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Module 6: Personal Responsibility & Deflection

  • Helping a Client to Own Their Part
  • How to Get a Client to Talk about Self
  • Working with Deflection in your Clients
  • How to Connect to Self, Before, During & After Sessions
  • BONUS: Challenging a Dad who Has a lot of Fantasies about Partnership
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Module 7: Coach Entanglement & Your Agenda

  • Using Coach Entanglement
  • How Coach Entanglement Helps as a Coach
  • Owning and Letting Go of Your Agenda
  • How To Regulate a Client
  • What To Do When a Coach is Talking Too Much
  • BONUS: Transparent Coaching Approach with Cheating Issue
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Module 8: More Support Than Challenge, Resistant Clients, Boundaries with Sexual Abuse

  • Client Wanting More Support Than Challenge
  • Working With a ‘Resistant’ Client
  • When A Client Discloses Sexual Abuse
  • BONUS: Coaching About a Possible Separation and Self-Connection
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Module 9: Transmission and The Here and Now

  • Why Does Transmission Involve Here and Now?
  • 4 Types of Here and Now Experiments
  • Experiments in Coaching
  • Here and Now with a Client
  • BONUS: What To Do With a Power Struggle With A Client in Here and Now
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Module 10: Getting Their World, First

  • Seen Before Solutions- Trying to Understand What It’s Like to Be Them
  • How To Tell If You Are Misattuned To A Client and What To Do About It
  • What Your Job Is As A Relationship Coach And What Coaching Is All About
  • Slaying Dragons Instead of Sidestepping Lizards & Mastering The Fundamentals
  • Jayson Demonstrating Roleplay: Sharing Impact
  • BONUS: Jayson Coaching Client Around Feeling Lost with His Compass and Purpose
  • BONUS: Jayson Coaching Student- Trigger with Girlfriend
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Module 11: How To Challenge And Deepen A Client’s Decision

  • How To Challenge and Deepen Someone’s Decision
  • When Your Client Says “I don’t want to upset the other person”
  • Holding A Boundary
  • Jayson Coaching Christen: Distrust and Deception in a Partnership
  • BONUS: Identifying Self-Betrayal, Commitment Issues, & Being a People Pleaser
  • BONUS: Jayson Coaching Student- Setting Boundaries with Daughter
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Module 12: Eye Contact, Feelings, Blankness, Pacing

  • Being With - Grief, Feeling, and the Importance of Eye Contact
  • Coach Going “Blank” In a Session
  • Pacing in Coaching
  • What To Do When A Client Asks For Advice
  • BONUS: Jayson Coaching Ciara
  • Memory Tracing 180 Exercise
  • Transitioning a Client to a 180
  • 180 with Jill – Conflict Avoidant Pattern
  • Language Matters- Qualifiers
  • BONUS: Jayson Coaching Client Using 180 About Single Incident From the Past
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Module 13: Reframing The Past

  • Memory Tracing 180 Exercise
  • Transitioning a Client to a 180
  • 180 with Jill – Conflict Avoidant Pattern
  • Language Matters- Qualifiers
  • BONUS: Jayson Coaching Client Using 180 About Single Incident From the Past
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Module 14: Emotions And The 180

  • Emotions And Coaching
  • When A Client Is Emotional And Shuts Down
  • Client Feeling Demo - Jayson & Arif
  • When to support and NOT challenge (Trauma)
  • BONUS: 180 With Abby – Self-Judgment And Self-Worth
  • BONUS: 180 With Shannon – Not Feeling Chosen
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Module 15: Ending Coaching

  • Meeting A Client Where They Are
  • Confronting People's Fantasies About Relationships
  • Ending Your Coaching And Final Session
  • BONUS: Jayson Coaching Client: Helping Client Get In Touch With His Heart And Chose His Self-Protection
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Module 16: Self Acceptance, Self Worth, Integrating Power

  • When A Client Is In Heavy Dysregulated Emotion
  • Self Acceptance vs Self Mastery
  • Helping Client Integrate Their New Found Heart And Power Connection To Self
  • Don't Let Your Clients Off The Hook
  • Self-Sabotaging Your Coaching Practice at the End of the Course
  • DBONUS: Difficult Conversations, Ownership And Clarity [00:25:05]
  • NUS: Jayson Coaching Client On Self Worth Using 180
  • BONUS: Fun Experiments around your Clients Messiness and Imperfections
  • BONUS: Jayson Coaching Student on Standing up to Her Mother
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Module 17: Conflict & Sexual Attraction With Clients

  • Opportunities To “Teach” In A Session
  • When “Nothing Is Happening” During A Session
  • Conflict With A Client
  • When A Client Is Attracted To The Coach
  • BONUS: Jayson Helping a Client Repair & Address Deeper Issue
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Module 18: Attract Coaching Clients Using Relationship Marketing with Sharla Jacobs of Thrive Academy

Notes for Trauma informed module:

Trauma informed module should go after mod 3. These are the videos that discuss helping a client move from dysregulation to embodiment, including dissociation.

  • Code of Ethics
  • Helping a client get resourced - body
  • Helping a Client Get Resourced - Visualization
  • Transmission 2: Regulating Them When They are Dysregulated
  • How to Connect to Self Before, During, and After Sessions
  • How to Regulate a Client
  • When to Support and Not Challenge (Trauma)/li>
  • When a Client is in Heavy Dysregulated Emotion (Shannon Coaching Stacey)
  • Understanding Trauma: When to Refer Out with Ariel Schwartz