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The Secret To Getting His Heart Back Even If He's Pulling Away

Your complete roadmap to get his heart back!!

Is your man emotionally unavailable right now? Discover the keys to cultivating unwavering love and reigniting passion, even when your partner is hesitant to change. Unlock a path to lasting fulfillment and connection. Join our exclusive 14-day trial now and unlock the full $3,391 value of transformation and connection for only a fraction of the cost! Don't miss this opportunity to rewrite your love story.

Here’s everything you gain access to when you start your

14-Day Trial

  • ​Get Him To Open Up: Video Class & Ebook ( $19 value)
  • The 4 Steps To Get Him To Connect With You Emotionally ($57 value)
  • The Complete End Your Struggle With Him 30-Day Life Changing Program + The Powerful 180 Clarity To Freedom  Process ($397 value)
  • ​One 60-Minute Breakthrough Group Coaching Session Per Month ($1500 value)
  • ​Access To The Private ESH Facebook Group (Priceless)

Plus 4 Incredible Bonuses!!

  • ​Why Men Are The Way They Are: Cracking The Man Code Ebook ($27 value)
  • 120 Minute End The Struggle With Him Q & A Recording ($127)
  • ​ How My Wife Got Me To Put Two Feet In! The infamous recorded call where Jayson’s wife Ellen breaks down what she did to get him to fully commit and never look back ($997 value)
  • ​Self Love Class: The Key To Getting Your Non-Negotiable Needs Met By Him ($197 value)

Total Value: Priceless

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Here's everything you get!!!

1. Get Him To Open Up

The Single Most Effective Tool To Get Him To Open Up And Talk About His Feelings. Without Triggering His Defensiveness And Without You Tip-toeing Anymore...

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Get Him To Open Up Includes:

  • 28 minute video class that gives you everything you need to get reconnected to him
  • 28 minute downloadable mp3 audio class
  • 30 page ebook outlining exactly what to do

You will learn:

  • The hidden question that will get him to open up (Not asking this question is a big mistake).
  • How to find out how important (or not) your relationship is on his priority list.
  • How to stop tip-toeing, which just irritates him more.
  • ​My super embarrassing story that helped me finally “crack” my heart open and get my act together.
  • ​A very rewarding homework assignment you can do, with or without him that will change the way you communicate with him, forever.

2. The 4 Simple Steps To Get Him To Connect Emotionally With You….

Without Coming Across As Naggy, Whiney, Or Too Demanding!

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The 4 Steps Course includes:

  • ​1 hour video class 60 min mp3 recording 4 step guide for you 4 step guide for your man on how to listen to you and understand you.
  • ​2 cheat sheets for your man on how to listen to you in a way that has you relax, soften & open to him, a guide on what NOT to do when listening to you & 1 mistake you are probably still making along with a step by step cheat sheet on how to get you, and validate you.
  • ​The Very Best Way To Connect Emotionally With Him: A jam packed 60 min web class followed by recorded Q and A from women just like you about how to get your guy to really connect from the heart. This is training for you (and him).

You will learn:

  • ​4 steps to get him to pay even more attention to you so the two of you can get deeper.
  • ​1 mistake you are probably still making.
  • ​10 of the most common male behaviors (and what’s underneath them) of emotionally guarded or distant men.
  • ​You will learn about 10 do’s and 10 don’ts when sharing with your man or getting him to connect with you.
  • ​7 mistakes you make to get him to connect with you.
  • ​Why he "pulls away" is not about you.
  • ​A real case study of Trish and Jeff and how they turned it around.

3. End Your Struggle With Him In 30 Days

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End Your Struggle With Him In 30 Days: That’s right you smart, successful women out there... You can End the Struggle with Him in 30 Days And, finally get the relationship you desire & deserve..

What is End Your Struggle With Him In 30 Days?
End Your Struggle With Him In 30 Days™ is a solution, a system, broken up into a 30-day course to get you out of the victim seat and into your “smart empowered woman” seat so you can finally have the love you long for with your man.

Week 1:

The Powerful 180 “Clarity to Freedom” Process
(And the 1 critical view you need to have in order to succeed in ANY relationship) Most women see a HUGE shift right after this first class.


You will learn:

  • The most critical context needed to succeed during this 30 days, and to apply it immediately.
  • Where you struggled before and were met with resistance, you will instantly get a new, positive vibe in your marriage.
  • How to stop spinning your wheels, get to the real issue (on your side), and dissolve it (Clearing it will give you a huge exhale, big relief)
  • How to help your husband feel supported instead of judged or challenged, which leads to him no longer needing to defend himself
  • ​Basic requirements to get the most out of this course
  • ​3 keys to focus on during this 30 days
  • ​What the REAL issue is with you and your man
  • ​How to get to more clarity and freedom through a powerful process.

Week 2:

Male Psychology – Getting Inside His Head & Why He Is The Way He Is

You will learn:

  • From a man who’s been there. More details from Jayson’s story and other men and why it matters here
  • ​About male psychology & male conditioning, why he’s emotionally unavailable and the most effective way to reach him
  • 3 hidden body language signs that tell you he will most likely never change
  • ​The 3 sentences he will say that will give you absolute confidence that he’s in this and wants to go for it with you. And, how to distinguish between lip service and real-deal action
  • ​How to gain certainty whether or not you should keep working at it, or cut your loses, walk away and save yourself a whole bunch of time, money and energy
  • ​What the boy code and man code are and how it’s playing out with your man
  • ​The 3 behaviors that indicate he will never change
  • ​Your man’s biggest fear + The prime motivator for men
  • ​Who the only support is in his life is…and why this is a relationship buzz kill

Week 3:

How to Talk to Your Man Effectively & Why Things Are Not Working Between You Two (plus, how to communicate effectively so that your relationship grows and deepens over time). Not getting this method of communication will keep driving wedges between you and increase your fighting.

You will learn:

  • How his values and yours are likely clashing, why that is, and how to deal with it quickly
  • ​About how you’ve abandoned your needs and getting clear on them is crucial to communicate effectively with him.
  • ​How to find your non negotiable pillars and why they are paramount to you ending the struggle with him.
  • ​How to identify your/your man’s non-negotiable pillars
  • ​How to communicate with a intelligent new software that works with him consistently.
  • ​Personal examples from Jayson’s life in how he and his wife organize their values, preferences, and priorities
  • ​Why Jayson won’t heal his immune system…or what it will take to heal it…
  • ​The 5 keys to a successful relationship
  • ​They key reminder that makes or breaks our relationships
  • ​The main reason he doesn’t want to join you…
  • ​How to create a more secure homebase in your relationship
  • ​Linking values, preferences and priorities with each other

Week 4:

Exactly What To Do Next

You will  learn:

  • How his values and yours are likely clashing, why that is, and how to deal with it quickly
  • ​How to identify your/your man’s non-negotiable pillars
  • ​The decision making strategy
  • ​The exact signs to know if it’s time to stay and work, or leave
  • ​His empowerment scale. The telling signs he’s in or already checked out
  • ​Your empowerment scale which helps you step in or out

Q&A
Week 5:

In this class you will learn how the EHS Course has benefited the community of women who have chosen to take on the End Your Struggle journey. Through this interactive Q&A, you will hear immediate feedback from Jayson on a variety of questions posed by actual individuals participating in this course. You will hear how the tools and elements provided have effected these empowered women, and how beneficial it can be for you.

You will learn:

  • The 3 Types of Shared Contexts for Relationship
  • ​The 12 Step Integration Plan
  • ​Why it’s hard to do the hard thing sometimes
  • ​Other women’s personal shares and examples

4.Monthly Group Coaching

One 60-minute breakthrough group coaching session per month (via Zoom)

2023-2024 Group Coaching Dates
Time: (12:30 pm MST| 11:30 pm PST| 2:30 pm EST)

  • ​Thursday, December 7th
  • ​Thursday, January 4th
  • Thursday, February 1st
  • ​Thursday, March 7th
  • ​Thursday, April 4th
  • ​Thursday, May 2nd
  • ​Thursday, June 6th
  • ​Thursday, July 11th
  • ​Thursday, August 1st
  • Thursday, September 5th
  • ​Thursday, October 3rd
  • ​Thursday, November 7th
  • ​​Thursday, December 5th

Plus 4 Incredible Bonuses!!!

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Bonus 1:
Why Men Are The Way They Are: Cracking The Man Code Ebook ($27 value)

In this eBook you will learn:

  • What does it mean to be a man in today’s culture?
  • ​How to come back into connection from disconnection
  • ​A man’s greatest fears and what stands in the way of a man’s personal freedom
  • ​How to break free from the deep male social conditioning
  • ​What is the boy code and how you got “trained” to be a certain kind of man
  • ​The importance of rituals and rites of passage for today’s growth-oriented man
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Bonus 2:
 
120 Minute End The Struggle With Him Q & A Recording ($127 value)

An Extra 2.5 hour interview with women just like you asking Jayson hard questions about their shut down man, what to say, what not to say, do, etc.

This recorded call is worth the course and more! The questions are raw, real, heart-wrenching, and inspiring as hell.
I’m pretty sure you will get an answer to your situation just by listening to other women like you going through something very similar.

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Bonus 3:
 How My Wife Got Me To Put Two Feet In! 
The infamous recorded call where Jayson’s wife Ellen breaks down what she did to get him to fully commit and never look back ($997 value)

How My Wife Got Me To Put Two Feet In: A 2 hour recorded call with my wife, Ellen. This call blew everyone out of the water. Ellen shared her side of the story, her experience, what it was that she did that got me to change!

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Bonus 4:
 
Self Love Class: The Key To Getting Your Non-Negotiable Needs Met By Him ($197 value)

This bonus class includes:

  • The biggest and most important non-negotiable need you have
  • ​What is Self-Love Anyway?
  • ​How To Attract Him To You- The Key To Increasing Your Self Worth And More!

Real Results From Real Women….

Check out these testimonials from some previous women who have taken the courses.

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I'm getting more determined, to notice what I do, how I feel and why, what I need, keep that attentive-focus on myself that I used to only shine on others, especially my man. I am feeling a lot more self-reliant. Proud of the boundaires I've (kindly) set and the steps I've taken to make ME happy...thats all snowballing, making me feel more powerful. And letting go of how he's going to take that. That's been huge. His emotions/responses/ineer work are not my responsibility....and that shit feels FREEING. I feel a lot less burdened.

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Kara

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MY HUBBY IS SHOWING UP MORE THEN EVER BEFORE!!!! THANKS!

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Jenn

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I finally figured out how to soothe myself. I nest. I calm. I quiet. I relax. I knit the quilt of self awareness, self knowing and calm. And then he is suddenly THERE. Three and a half years and he looks at me like he's just discovered me, and I've just discovered him, like I'm the ocean and he's an island. Or maybe the other way around. But it's profound. I've taken WAY longer than 30 days. Started this in June I think. Now October. Not told him, not asked, not pushed. Been working on me. Quieting, gentling, calming. Now, all at once, he's here.

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Alex

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I got a two feet in signal!! He said "I'll do whatever it takes," as if he had read my notes from that part of the course. So now I am resisting the effort to bombard him with options (just a few a time as I feel requests for help coming in....)

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Dawn

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I did this when my marriage was healing from a recent separation. It really helped both me, and by proxy, my husband. It shifted my mindset back to myself and what I need, want, and need to fix for myself, and by removing that stress from my husband it helped solidify my feelings and assisted in repairing our relationship.

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Lori

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Go through the course. Ultimately, it is about you. Do it for you. no matter what happens with him.He'd ask me to wait for him to get his shit together and then he'd tell me not to wait. I felt like my heart was being broken over and over agian and I couldn't handle it anymore. I took the course. I wrote him a letter where I owned my shit, called him on his, and shared my non-negotiable needs. He took 3 weeks to respond before he finally tole me that everything I said was valid but he couldn't meet anyones needs right now. Take the 30 days. It won't be a waste of time, that I can promise.

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Diana

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Life changing for me. I'm using other tools/resources as well which include the Boundaries book and video series through a local support group, classes/books by Jeff Brown which led me to mindfulness and somatic work. The combination has been truly life changing for myself and everyone I interact with. I'm able to communicate my triggers, needs, boundaries in a way people can hear that I NEVER have been able to do before so I'm happy to support Jayson. Good luck to you in your journey.

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Anonymous

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I bought Jayson and Ellen's attachment class. It helped me shift into a new perspective. Specifically the pro-self vs pro-relationship attitude. I realized that I have been trying to get my (partner) to be pro relationship when he has always been pro self. We go in a cycle of me trying to get him to be pro relationship by making choices that are win win for us. But, he refuses. At which point- I go pro self and we repeat the cycle again. The new class helped me to see that it's his move that this relationship hinges on. Without a pro relationship shift in him there will never be movement.

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Melanie

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It helped me to remember what I want, and how I want to be treated and related to in a marriage, and gave me tools to look at myself and my situation differently instead of from a victim stance. I did it without telling my husband as I had just left, so I did it for my own clarification. As a result of my actions, unbeknown to me, he enrolled in another of Jaysons courses, and with the new skills we learnt we have enriched our relationship and have great skills to develop our marriage with. Hard stuff to work through for sure but ultimately rewarding.I wish I had known the material in ESH when I was a teenager.

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Heidi

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Eureka! It's me! I've been shut down. I've been hiding! I buried my authentic visual looks like a locomotive dead on the tracks & the cars juxtaposed behind it. It's my way of seeing me walking away from a trainload of self-imposed negativity. I am skipping down the tracks, away from the wreckage, holding hands w/ Joy (looks like sunshine w/ legs) and Freedom (in a purple satin suit)! When my hubby's alarm went off, I thanked him for telling me to relax last night & said I'd been bitchy because he & our daughter (15) roll their eyes @ my woo-woo ways. So grateful Jayson's work crossed my path.

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Justine

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So I have to say a massive big thank you to Jayson Gaddis and all you wonderful ladies out there!! After my last post when I stated that I was going to accept it was all over and move on, and me spending a day and a half doing that quite successfully, I was inundated with messages from my man. Long story short, we are back together and he is doing everything that is outlined in the reasons to stay! I am ecstatic. So glad I'm doing this course, and so not giving up, I've learnt so many good strategies, and still so much to learn I'm sure. Again an enormous thank you to all of you.

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Kay

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"Having been with women who are willing to be vulnerable and share, both their fears as well as their strengths and “lessons”, inspired me and gave me a greater perspective on my own situation. It increased my realization of the reality I am experiencing in my “relationship” instead of my own story about it. And, I feel supported, seen and heard….which increases my courage and confidence. Thank you!

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Get his heart back today!!!

You can cancel ANYTIME during the 14 days without any hassle. Just login to your account settings and click cancel my account or you can contact our support team at info@relationshipschool.com and they will help you

“Jayson Gaddis is a next-generation leader in the relationship space. His brilliant, Smart Couples podcast and Relationship School are transforming the way we love, around the globe. Jayson is a true visionary with a unique voice that is not to be missed!”

- Terri Cole


“Jayson is standing for the kind of lifelong, True Love that poets and artists dream about. He, like me, believes in romantic possibilities that only the most courageous hearts can fathom. To work with him is to hire a visionary that will guide your heart through the dark corners of your own pain. Jayson will help you befriend your own shadow then illuminate it with your own consciousness.”


- Annie Lalla

“With a wide-open and curious heart, Jayson is a radical, powerful man devoted to serving the authentic full-throttle expressions and healing of the masculine and feminine; whatever it takes, however it looks. To do this he has offered his own life as practice, in transparency, in humility and fierce truth…holding nothing back. I am honored to consider Jayson a colleague, a brother and a dear friend.”

- Christiane Pelmas