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Quickly Resolve Communication Breakdowns & Transform Your Partnership
(10x Better Than Therapy or Counseling)
Communicate Like You Did When You Were Falling In Love…
Are you ever laying in bed at night wondering…”How did we get here? What happened to US? Why are we at odds? We used to be such a good team.”
After the honeymoon phase, every couple will be put to the test. Things were great in the beginning— love, sex, deep conversations, great vibes, synergy, and a feeling like you two could do anything together.
Now? It feels like sink or swim.
Things have gotten harder and you are experiencing more and more communication breakdowns and the little and big conflicts don’t get resolved…
…you’re stuck in frustrating miscommunication loops, distance, and not feeling like you’re a team, all making it hard to get back to a good, relaxed place where you both feel seen and supported like you did in the honeymoon phase.
You’re smart enough to try therapy or counseling, but up to this point it hasn’t really worked.
You’re on this page because things have become stale or gotten worse.
Don’t let your disconnection become a slow toxic cancer that begins to erode the foundation of everything you’ve built. Don’t make the casum between you even bigger.
That tension or “off” feeling you are experiencing is probably not going anywhere unless you take action right now.
Come and learn the basic system that helps you move out of a bad place and into a good place.
Over the past 20 years, I’ve been teaching individuals and couples how to collaborate and communicate during stressful times. Over tens of thousands of hours, and my own marriage of 17+ years, I’ve developed a simple path forward called:
The Communication Breakthrough System
Using this system in only ONE DAY, it will give you relief, insights, and practical tools that will last a lifetime. You’ll reduce your fights, communicate far better, and feel like a badass team again.
Don’t let your partnership be crippled by poor communication skills.
Don’t enter your next relationship unprepared.
Don’t let your inability or unwillingness ruin your partnership and create a costly divorce.
Don’t let your fight/flight/freeze response drive your partner further away.
It’s up to you to change this painful pattern and you can do it, with a system and support.
This is like riding a bike—once you get it, you’ve got it for life.
Since bumps in the road will always be there in your relationships, you can rest assured knowing you have the tools to handle any communication challenge.
For the same price as one coaching or counseling session get 5 hours of exceptional and effective content, tools, and practices to completely change how you communicate.
Let’s look at your two main options for dealing with communication problems:
Therapy
- Venting about the problem
- Feeling understood by therapist
- no map
- no tools
- no system
- bandaid fixes
- sometimes makes it worse
1 hour: $150
2 hours: $300
4 hours: $600
11 hours: $1650
Communication Breakthrough System
- 4 + hours with map, compass, tools
- 4 more hours watching a couple get coached
- Practice call templates
- Accountability
- An entire communication system
11 hours: $200 $95
Do you want relief or results? If you want relief, hire a therapist for one hour. If you want results for the same price, use the Communication Breakthrough System and get a permanent upgrade to reignite the connection and the kind of communication you had when you fell in love.
Structure of the communication breakthrough system
Reignite your connection-communicate like you did when you fell in love.
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In week 1 you will feel relief knowing there’s a path forward, You will gain clarity why your communication approach doesn’t work because you’ll be introduced to a new Map and path forward. You will diagnose the biggest roadblock to a thriving partnership. You will understand how your past relational blueprint impacts your present partnership. You will do an exercise that will have your partner feeling more understand than they have in years. And, you’ll see a real example of a couple being coached “how” to communicate better.
You will get a deeper dive on the proven system (map) and gain Insights by seeing the worst kind of listening (Big ahahs here). You’ll learn how to speak effectively under stress and why the blame/defend block is so limited. We’ll give you relief with seeing exact scripts you can use to speak to any issue. You’ll gain clarity on your values and theirs, which will help you argue less and be a team more. You’ll also learn why attuned communication is so powerful and necessary for your partnership.
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You will get a deeper dive on the proven system (map). You’ll learn how to work with the victim in you and them. You’ll learn the best framework for long-term partnerships (it’s 3 words). Without this you’re sunk. And you’ll see a real demo of how to LUFU (listen until someone feels understood) which will inspire you to listen differently for life.
The final week you feel less crazy once you see the fight under the fight because you’ll know how to address it. You will feel big emotions seeing how science looks at attachment. You’ll gain clarity on which non-verbals trigger you and which help soothe you (See a couple get this) You will get a simplified 4 step repair process so you don’t have to think anymore. You will be armored with a map, compass, and tools to build a successful and thriving long-term partnership that will rise above any future obstacle. You’ll feel strongly connected, like a the dream team you experienced early on. You will no longer resort to hope, pray, and therapy to fix your communcation problems for you as you’ll be empowered to transform them alone and together.
By the end of the course you will…
- Communicate like you did when you fell in love
- Feel more connected, confident and empowered as a team
- Experience fewer fights with quicker recoveries
- Be around your friends in a dignified way. No more smiling and pretending everything’s fine when you are in shame about your partnership. You want to be that couple that everyone looks up to.
Your Path to Mastery:
Information-Packed Video Lessons. Comprehensive and Easy to Understand.
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Module 1: Big Picture and Purpose of PCRC
- The Purpose of Relationship Coaching
- The 3-Part Coaching Framework
- Big Picture PCRC Coaching Model
- PCRC Training Manual
- How to be Successful in this Course
- PCRC Manifesto
- How to be a Client
- Don’t Be Attached to the Outcome with your Clients
- Present Centered Relationship Coaching Manual
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Module 2: Principles, Goals, Confidentiality, Ethics
- Client Goal
- Coaching Principles: Life is Trustworthy
- Coaching Principles: Love
- Coaching Principles: Relationship as a Path
- Coaching Principles: Relational Leadership
- Coaching Principles: Security & Client Growth
- Coaching Principles: Law of the Farm, Trust, Direct Experience
- Coaching Principles: Behavior, Relationship Stages, Here and Now
- Setting the Coaching Container and Holding Space
- Coach Confidentiality
- Code of Ethics- document
- BONUS: The Primary Intention I Should Hold as a Coach
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Module 3: The Six Client Outcomes and Six Coach Practices
- Administrative
- Presence
- Attunement
- Support
- Challenge
- Develop their Story
- Entanglement
- Insight
- Personal Responsibility
- Be With
- Empathy
- Integration & Lessons
- Action & Accountability
- Equity Call 1
- BONUS: 3 Things that Faciliate Change- Carl Rogers
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Module 4: Your First Session and “Be With” Skills
- Your First Session
- Building Rapport
- Jayson Modeling How To Build Rapport
- Populations We Are Not Qualified To Serve
- Coaching When a Client’s Child is in the Room
- LIghting and Posture Over Zoom
- Ray’s First Session
- Personal Responsibility
- Melissa’s First Session
- Equity Call 2
- BONUS: Jayson’s Client Resourcing Demonstration
- BONUS: Jayson Demonstrating Guiding a Visualization Helping A Client Get Resourced - Visualization
- BONUS: Jayson Modeling a First Session - Leah
- BONUS: Jayson Modeling a First Session - Warren
- BONUS: Jayson Reviewing His Coaching Session with John
- BONUS: Helping A Client “Be With” His Fear
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Module 5: Transmission, Motivational Interviewing & Values
- The Purpose of Relationship Coaching
- The 3-Part Coaching Framework
- Big Picture PCRC Coaching Model
- PCRC Training Manual
- How to be Successful in this Course
- PCRC Manifesto
- How to be a Client
- Don’t Be Attached to the Outcome with your Clients
- Present Centered Relationship Coaching Manual
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Module 6: Personal Responsibility & Deflection
- Helping a Client to Own Their Part
- How to Get a Client to Talk about Self
- Working with Deflection in your Clients
- How to Connect to Self, Before, During & After Sessions
- BONUS: Challenging a Dad who Has a lot of Fantasies about Partnership
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Module 7: Coach Entanglement & Your Agenda
- Using Coach Entanglement
- How Coach Entanglement Helps as a Coach
- Owning and Letting Go of Your Agenda
- How To Regulate a Client
- What To Do When a Coach is Talking Too Much
- BONUS: Transparent Coaching Approach with Cheating Issue
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Module 8: More Support Than Challenge, Resistant Clients, Boundaries with Sexual Abuse
- Client Wanting More Support Than Challenge
- Working With a ‘Resistant’ Client
- When A Client Discloses Sexual Abuse
- BONUS: Coaching About a Possible Separation and Self-Connection
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Module 9: Transmission and The Here and Now
- Why Does Transmission Involve Here and Now?
- 4 Types of Here and Now Experiments
- Experiments in Coaching
- Here and Now with a Client
- BONUS: What To Do With a Power Struggle With A Client in Here and Now
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Module 10: Getting Their World, First
- Seen Before Solutions- Trying to Understand What It’s Like to Be Them
- How To Tell If You Are Misattuned To A Client and What To Do About It
- What Your Job Is As A Relationship Coach And What Coaching Is All About
- Slaying Dragons Instead of Sidestepping Lizards & Mastering The Fundamentals
- Jayson Demonstrating Roleplay: Sharing Impact
- BONUS: Jayson Coaching Client Around Feeling Lost with His Compass and Purpose
- BONUS: Jayson Coaching Student- Trigger with Girlfriend
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Module 11: How To Challenge And Deepen A Client’s Decision
- How To Challenge and Deepen Someone’s Decision
- When Your Client Says “I don’t want to upset the other person”
- Holding A Boundary
- Jayson Coaching Christen: Distrust and Deception in a Partnership
- BONUS: Identifying Self-Betrayal, Commitment Issues, & Being a People Pleaser
- BONUS: Jayson Coaching Student- Setting Boundaries with Daughter
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Module 12: Eye Contact, Feelings, Blankness, Pacing
- Being With - Grief, Feeling, and the Importance of Eye Contact
- Coach Going “Blank” In a Session
- Pacing in Coaching
- What To Do When A Client Asks For Advice
- BONUS: Jayson Coaching Ciara
- Memory Tracing 180 Exercise
- Transitioning a Client to a 180
- 180 with Jill – Conflict Avoidant Pattern
- Language Matters- Qualifiers
- BONUS: Jayson Coaching Client Using 180 About Single Incident From the Past
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Module 13: Reframing The Past
- Memory Tracing 180 Exercise
- Transitioning a Client to a 180
- 180 with Jill – Conflict Avoidant Pattern
- Language Matters- Qualifiers
- BONUS: Jayson Coaching Client Using 180 About Single Incident From the Past
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Module 14: Emotions And The 180
- Emotions And Coaching
- When A Client Is Emotional And Shuts Down
- Client Feeling Demo - Jayson & Arif
- When to support and NOT challenge (Trauma)
- BONUS: 180 With Abby – Self-Judgment And Self-Worth
- BONUS: 180 With Shannon – Not Feeling Chosen
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Module 15: Ending Coaching
- Meeting A Client Where They Are
- Confronting People's Fantasies About Relationships
- Ending Your Coaching And Final Session
- BONUS: Jayson Coaching Client: Helping Client Get In Touch With His Heart And Chose His Self-Protection
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Module 16: Self Acceptance, Self Worth, Integrating Power
- When A Client Is In Heavy Dysregulated Emotion
- Self Acceptance vs Self Mastery
- Helping Client Integrate Their New Found Heart And Power Connection To Self
- Don't Let Your Clients Off The Hook
- Self-Sabotaging Your Coaching Practice at the End of the Course
- DBONUS: Difficult Conversations, Ownership And Clarity [00:25:05]
- NUS: Jayson Coaching Client On Self Worth Using 180
- BONUS: Fun Experiments around your Clients Messiness and Imperfections
- BONUS: Jayson Coaching Student on Standing up to Her Mother
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Module 17: Conflict & Sexual Attraction With Clients
- Opportunities To “Teach” In A Session
- When “Nothing Is Happening” During A Session
- Conflict With A Client
- When A Client Is Attracted To The Coach
- BONUS: Jayson Helping a Client Repair & Address Deeper Issue
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Module 18: Attract Coaching Clients Using Relationship Marketing with Sharla Jacobs of Thrive Academy
Notes for Trauma informed module:
Trauma informed module should go after mod 3. These are the videos that discuss helping a client move from dysregulation to embodiment, including dissociation.
- Code of Ethics
- Helping a client get resourced - body
- Helping a Client Get Resourced - Visualization
- Transmission 2: Regulating Them When They are Dysregulated
- How to Connect to Self Before, During, and After Sessions
- How to Regulate a Client
- When to Support and Not Challenge (Trauma)/li>
- When a Client is in Heavy Dysregulated Emotion (Shannon Coaching Stacey)
- Understanding Trauma: When to Refer Out with Ariel Schwartz
Refund Policy
Commitment to Your Success: Our 100% Money-Back Guarantee
Because I am fully committed to helping you transform your relationship and your life, I am offering a 100% money-back guarantee. You have 14 days from the date of purchase to evaluate the course. If you complete the work and feel that I haven’t delivered on my promise, I will gladly refund your money in full.
To be eligible for a refund, you must provide:
1. Completed homework from the first two classes.
2. A written description of the changes you implemented and the results you achieved.
This requirement ensures that you actively apply my teachings to your life and relationships. I am confident that if you do, you will see results. However, if you do the work and don’t find value, you deserve your money back, and I will refund 100% of your tuition.
This policy exists because I seek serious and committed students who are dedicated to their growth. I uphold a high standard of truth, integrity, encouragement, and inspired, action-oriented learning in my educational environment.
Please note, if after 14 days you change your mind about the program, fail to follow through, misunderstand program details, do not achieve the expected results, or encounter similar situations, you are not entitled to a refund.
Take Action & Get the #1 Communication System to Prevent Stuckness, Affairs, & Divorce
A final note…The brain research is clear:
Failing to regulate your emotions and communicate effectively during or after an argument can lead to major health problems. The Gottmans’ research shows that couples who navigate conflict effectively live ten years longer than those who don’t!
Check this out from the International Business Times:
“Exposure to frequent conflicts between parents can impair brain development in children and place them at a greater risk of several mental health issues, researchers reveal.”
“Exposure to frequent conflicts between parents can impair brain development in children and place them at a greater risk of several mental health issues, researchers reveal.”
Psychologists suspected this, but now we have the facts.
Couples Attachment Expert Stan Tatkin says:
“Insecurity and insecure attachment negatively affect brain performance. Development can be slowed down because the brain is using most of its resources to manage being in survival mode instead of being free to move toward evolution, growth, and complexity.”
“Insecurity and insecure attachment negatively affect brain performance. Development can be slowed down because the brain is using most of its resources to manage being in survival mode instead of being free to move toward evolution, growth, and complexity.”
“Insecurity and insecure attachment negatively affect brain performance. Development can be slowed down because the brain is using most of its resources to manage being in survival mode instead of being free to move toward evolution, growth, and complexity.”
“Insecurity and insecure attachment negatively affect brain performance. Development can be slowed down because the brain is using most of its resources to manage being in survival mode instead of being free to move toward evolution, growth, and complexity.”
Yikes!
Don’t be another statistic. Don’t let this impact your sleep, mood, and health long term.
Get the communication breakthrough system right now and in 30 days you’ill be in a completely different conversation.
Jayson Gaddis, MA is an artist, Wall Street Journal best selling author, podcaster, speaker, executive coach, CEO, founder, human behavior specialist and relationship expert. He is the creator of Interpersonal Intelligence® and Present Centered Relationship Coaching® and has trained over 200 coaches in 11 countries. His book Getting to Zero: How to work Through Conflict In Your High Stakes Relationships was voted Editors Choice, Best non-fiction, and Best Leadership and Business book in 2021 on Amazon. He’s been married to his amazing wife since 2007 and has two beautiful kids. They live in Boulder, Colorado. When he doesn’t live and breathe this relationship stuff with his family, he pretty much gets his ass handed to him. www.jaysongaddis.com.
“Jayson offers us the opportunity to clear our minds of all the unresolved conflicts that haunt our lives. He has pulled the best thinking and research on the art of conflict resolution and offers it to us in an immensely practical form”
Richard Schwartz PhD
Developer of the Internal Family Systems Model
Real Results from Real Students....
Just sharing a breakthrough experience from today. Before taking this class, I communicated my intentions to my spouse that I wanted to take this course on my own first to understand these tools and practice, then to teach him these tools that help me feel seen and heard. He understood and was willing to try this since he didn’t feel that he needed to take the course. We have been committing two hours every week for the past 4 weeks for me to “teach” and guide my spouse through these tools and practices. It is slow going but successful! I’m to the point where I am really turning into myself anytime I am getting triggered to dive deep and figure out why I am reacting this way? Where is it coming from? This has really helped me stay accountable and stop blaming others. My needs are coming out more fluidly (used to be painful or not at all). I am getting a lot of healing from deep wounds from my childhood, stuff I thought I had already processed. But I’m realizing that all this that is flowing much smoother right now is because I am finally ready. I am finally “owning” my part, having courage, facing some uglyness with grace and understanding that there is a lesson to gain.
Amanda
We loved the conflict course, despite bringing more conflict at the beginning of the course, as we worked our way through the course it began to bring so much in depth clarity about why we were fighting, how we could differently interact with each other during conflict and effectively take responsibility. Each week there were different results and by the end we noticed fully the results in how our conflicts began to shorten in time, when we began using the new language effectively, we both we saying more how we felt understood and seen which enabled us to build more intimacy in our relationship. Tomas said he felt more trust and Melina felt more secure. It has opened up new possibilities to us where we don’t feel as helpless during conflict but rather now we have options and tools to use to help us. It continues to be an ongoing practice which we are realising the need for community for support and accountability which will be our next step to ensure we remain on the path of using conflict to face our own wounds and see our partner as allies during this time. Thank you Jayson – this course is truly eye and heart opening, your straight forward, sometimes light hearted approach made it easy to digest. We are both deeply grateful.
Tomas & Melina
I've had a lot of tools and a lot of other trainings in the past, and this, there's a lot of insights that I received from this training. Highly recommend it. I feel confident with that, especially with my work. I feel very confident. I've already practiced some of it. I've also talked to some of it with this member that I'm talking about his mom, which is my oldest daughter. And it was, it was excellent beyond anything I ever anticipated. So thank you.
Glenda G.
"As a father of two young kids and a business owner, life gets chaotic. My wife and I were struggling to communicate effectively, despite working with a somatic therapist. But after joining Jayson’s Conscious Communication course, everything shifted. Jayson’s approach helped us break through roadblocks we’d been stuck on for years. We’re now in couples coaching with a Relationship School-trained coach, and I feel like we’re finally leveling up.".
Casey S.
The biggest for me is the reminder to stand for three no matter what a technique, no matter what tools and situations, but just the awareness that, especially high, high stakes relationships, like one with my wife, it's easy to forget. It's easy to go into the, call it the childhood dungeon, or the camp of like self preservation, but in the relationship that is long term and that is more than just situational, that has a little bit more personal investment. It's always important for me as well how well my my partner is doing and how well our relationship is doing, not just help me as an individual. Yeah, love it, dude.
Oskar T.
“Jayson Gaddis is my hero. He is my go-to resource for all things relationships, communications, and how I can show up better in my marriage. On top of that, he 100% walks the walk by cultivating an inspirational marriage and two exceptional children.”
